{Q&A} Ask the Wedding Experts

Q: I am having trouble with trusting my suppliers. I think I am being sold false promises.

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A: I completely understand how you feel, delving into wedding planning for the first time can be a daunting experience especially when immense amounts of money is at stake, not to mention it being one of the single most prominent days in your life. There are some awful suppliers who do not enjoy or have the passion as others do - but do not be completely harsh as there are many more people within this industry who have the drive for weddings and your perfect day.

Here are a few pointers I have told my past brides:
1. Don't feel obligated to book there and then, anyone can talk the talk and sell you anything, check out their work, visit some of their upcoming weddings (permission must be sought) and go through their references. It's alright to not trust those who you are instilling your most precious day with.

2. Trust your first instinct - it's usually right. If something feels right and everything checks out and even better if they are recommended by another bride or supplier - then you should trust your instincts. If something however feels dodgy then walk away. That glimpse of hesitation could grow through the months until your wedding - 'are they going to screw up my wedding day?'

3. Shop around! It's ok to shop around, there is a supplier out there who sees your vision and who you just click with! It's your job to find that company or individual.

4. Be very cautious when following magazine recommendations. I have recently found out that actually some of their articles are for their sponsors. So their sponsors pay them to write compelling articles that reflect a brides desire to get in touch with them. This isn't always the case but it is worth considering! I suppose that is why blogs are a great inspiration source full of free speech and uninfluenced by money and sponsors. (Rant over)

Out there is a supplier who will be able to get you and understand your needs and wants. It's important to not sign anything until you are absolutely satisfied!

I hope this helps Shaadi-Esque reader and thank you for writing in.

Rachyeta xxx

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